Sister Wives- S19 E11 "The Eleventh Hour"

[00:00:11] Welcome to Reality Tea Times Two, the podcast where we discuss all the trash reality TV we love to hate. I'm Tanyka and today we are going to be discussing Sister Wives with Letitia.

[00:00:26] Um, so just a couple things before we head into the episode. Number one, announcement. Don't forget that the podcast is going to be on a hiatus, on a break, from December 11th until January 15th.

[00:00:44] Uh, we will be covering different shows we normally don't cover during that time. All of the details for that is in the Toe 500 Days of Bummer episode at the very beginning.

[00:01:01] And also on socials. It is, so it's easy for you to find. It is pinned on Facebook as well as Twitter with all of the information there as to what shows we're covering, when you can expect to get them, um, and all that. So it's all there.

[00:01:20] Second thing, announcement, just so everyone is aware. I think a lot of people who do listen to the episode now, I think it was maybe a few weeks back, Letitia did announce that she is expecting, um, so that is happening.

[00:01:36] She's going to be most likely off the podcast entirely, um, in the next couple of weeks.

[00:01:44] So next week, as long as we feel we have things to discuss in the episode, which I think we are going to have lots to discuss, that is going to be the last episode that she's going to be on.

[00:01:57] Um, unless we can somehow make it possible to do prior to anything, but most likely, um, I think it's safe to say that next week will most likely be the last week that she's going to be on.

[00:02:11] An episode for a while. Um, we will try to get her back on, um, with the next season or if something else comes up after that, that we want to talk about and discuss or whatever, we'll figure that out.

[00:02:26] But she's going to be off for some time. So yeah, that's basically that. Um, but again, without further ado, let's go into the episode.

[00:02:41] Just as a warning, we do mainly stick with Sister Wives in the beginning. We do kind of go off a little bit in the beginning of Sister Wives, um, on a tangent.

[00:02:54] But at the end, we do kind of talk a little bit about Toe. So if you haven't seen the most recent episode, or the most recent episodes, or you haven't seen the Toe all yet, um, I would just stop it once we stop at Sister Wives so you don't get spoiled if you don't want to be spoiled.

[00:03:11] Um, so that's basically that. And we don't talk for very long on Toe anyways, but that's basically that. So yeah, that's it. I will stop rambling and I will put you over into Sister Wives.

[00:03:33] Okay, everyone. We're going to talk Sister Wives. We got Leticia here again. She was off last week. She's back with us.

[00:03:42] Bye!

[00:03:43] To talk this nonsense. So before we kind of get into the nitty gritty, the details of the episode, this episode made me laugh. I was actually giggling through most of this episode.

[00:03:58] It was, you know what, it was actually one of its best episodes in a long time since The Knife in the Kidneys, in my honest opinion. What do you think?

[00:04:08] I have to agree.

[00:04:10] Yeah, it was good.

[00:04:11] I have to agree that this episode was pretty good that I had, I watched it twice, actually.

[00:04:16] Me too. I did. I watched it twice, too. Um, so I thought it was great. It was funny. Um, some stuff pissed me off.

[00:04:27] But that's to be expected, because we're talking Cody Brown. Um, but yeah, so let's kind of just get into it.

[00:04:39] So, Mary is going to be moving to Parowan, moving to the B&B.

[00:04:46] And just off the bat, too, guys, I'm not talking about Christine and David announcing their engagement.

[00:04:52] I don't care. So we're just not going to be really talking about that so much.

[00:04:59] Yeah, we can skip over that whole entire process, because I'm done.

[00:05:02] Actually, hold on, let's pause for one second on that.

[00:05:05] So my thing is, I guess the way how she, how they, like, where do they go? Parowan or something?

[00:05:14] What is it? Parowan or whatever?

[00:05:16] Parowan, Utah.

[00:05:17] Whatever. Utah, damn it. They went to someplace in Utah on top of a mountain.

[00:05:23] Oh, no, they went to Moab.

[00:05:26] Same shit, different pile. They went somewhere in Utah, damn it.

[00:05:30] Okay.

[00:05:30] And David wants to be like, yes, this is my favorite place, and blase, blase, blase, shove it up your asshole.

[00:05:37] Great.

[00:05:38] And then you get done on one knee and you propose to her, whatever, whatever. Perfect. Shove it up her asshole. No problem.

[00:05:46] And then now, what irritated me the most is, like, all of her kids come over, and then I think, what, Janelle, Christine's kids were there, too?

[00:05:56] Or was it just her children?

[00:05:58] I think there was some of his kids.

[00:06:01] Yes, yes, yeah. Some of his children.

[00:06:02] Yeah, and then there was, I think, just Christine's.

[00:06:05] Right. Okay, perfect.

[00:06:07] And then you're going to pop in this little video and be like, oh, look, it was such a beautiful place.

[00:06:12] And, oh, my God, are you engaged? Are you engaged? Are you guys engaged?

[00:06:18] I feel like you can open your mouth holes and tell them we're engaged.

[00:06:25] And then you're giving the ring, you're giving the ring to David for him to put, for him to do what? To put on your finger?

[00:06:31] No, bitch, just take the ring out of your pocket and put it on your finger.

[00:06:33] Yeah, we don't need to see him put it on you.

[00:06:39] Like, it's...

[00:06:40] Like, I understand she's so head over heels for this person.

[00:06:44] Like, she finally has a man in her life that's all her own.

[00:06:47] And I get that.

[00:06:49] That's fine. But you're acting so childish.

[00:06:54] So immature.

[00:06:55] So childish.

[00:06:58] Like, and then you're going to sit there and talk about, is it going fast?

[00:07:00] Yeah, it is going fast, but we don't care.

[00:07:02] Yeah, but I have to get just used to it.

[00:07:04] Like, okay, cool.

[00:07:06] You guys don't care about your children, on the other hand, have an issue.

[00:07:09] Your child, Yazabelle, or however you pronounce the child's name.

[00:07:13] Isabel.

[00:07:14] Whatever.

[00:07:15] Yazabelle.

[00:07:17] Fuck.

[00:07:18] My issue is like, oh, is he going to replace dad?

[00:07:23] Bitch.

[00:07:25] Why would he replace your dad?

[00:07:27] No.

[00:07:28] Hold on.

[00:07:29] Hold on.

[00:07:30] This is just my opinion.

[00:07:32] You're old enough to know that this man is not going to replace your dad.

[00:07:38] Common sense.

[00:07:40] This is your mom's husband, boyfriend, whatever the fuck he is.

[00:07:43] He's not your father.

[00:07:45] You don't have to call him dad.

[00:07:47] You don't have to do anything.

[00:07:48] You don't.

[00:07:50] But for you to sit there as an adult and be like, oh my god, he's not going to replace dad.

[00:07:55] Is he?

[00:07:55] Bitch, no.

[00:07:57] No one's going to replace his father.

[00:07:59] I don't even know if she's legally an adult yet.

[00:08:01] I can't remember how old she is.

[00:08:03] But she's still a young teenager.

[00:08:06] A young adult.

[00:08:07] Common sense.

[00:08:08] Common sense.

[00:08:09] It's not about that.

[00:08:10] You have to read between the lines with what she said there.

[00:08:13] It's not about, she knows that David isn't going to replace her father.

[00:08:17] She's trying to protect this relationship that she actually really doesn't have with Cody right now.

[00:08:22] But she wants to protect that and make sure she's not hurting Cody's feelings.

[00:08:27] With developing a relationship with David.

[00:08:30] So this is weird.

[00:08:31] But does Cody care about anyone else's fucking feelings?

[00:08:33] But that's exactly it.

[00:08:35] You have to think of it as a child's perspective.

[00:08:38] You have to think of it from that perspective.

[00:08:40] When there's a broken home situation going on here.

[00:08:43] I guess it doesn't have the relationship.

[00:08:46] She doesn't have the broken home for so fucking long.

[00:08:47] Right.

[00:08:48] We are in different spots.

[00:08:49] Because.

[00:08:51] Exactly.

[00:08:52] Your parents weren't together before you were born.

[00:08:56] Right.

[00:08:56] My parents broke up when I was two.

[00:08:58] So we're used to that.

[00:09:00] We're used to the broken home.

[00:09:02] Right.

[00:09:04] But what I can say from a different perspective than what maybe Isabel is talking about.

[00:09:10] Is when you have a person that is in your parents, in this case mother's life.

[00:09:18] That they're living with.

[00:09:21] They're trying to start a life with.

[00:09:23] You want to protect the relationship you have with your biological father.

[00:09:29] And make sure that boundaries are being respected by the new guy.

[00:09:36] So sometimes that can come out in different ways.

[00:09:40] For me.

[00:09:41] You know.

[00:09:42] When I felt that certain people I'll leave nameless was overstepping.

[00:09:47] I straight up told him you're not my father.

[00:09:51] I went on the attack.

[00:09:53] I've done that too.

[00:09:54] Whereas Isabel is more because she's a little older.

[00:09:57] So she can handle herself a little better.

[00:10:00] It's kind of like.

[00:10:02] And this is also very new for her.

[00:10:04] She's kind of like.

[00:10:05] I just want to be sure that the relationship is being protected.

[00:10:10] And that my father's feelings are being protected.

[00:10:14] By the choices my mother is making.

[00:10:17] Fair.

[00:10:18] So that's kind of more what I think she's trying to get at.

[00:10:21] I don't truly think she thinks that David is going to replace her father.

[00:10:25] But I think she's also just trying to say.

[00:10:27] I don't want him to ever think.

[00:10:30] He is going to be a father.

[00:10:32] In that sense.

[00:10:34] And that's why Christine came back with.

[00:10:36] He will be what you need him to be.

[00:10:38] Fair.

[00:10:39] So that's.

[00:10:40] That's fine.

[00:10:41] But it's just like.

[00:10:42] I think that Christine is just.

[00:10:45] She's doing too much.

[00:10:46] She is.

[00:10:47] Like you're doing too much.

[00:10:50] And it's like you don't like.

[00:10:50] At this point you're being there.

[00:10:52] She.

[00:10:52] Okay.

[00:10:54] She's reminding me of my mom.

[00:10:57] And I think that's a trigger for me.

[00:10:59] Because my mom always put men first.

[00:11:02] Yeah.

[00:11:02] And see.

[00:11:02] I didn't really have that as much.

[00:11:04] Except for.

[00:11:06] That one particular person.

[00:11:07] I'm.

[00:11:07] Talking about.

[00:11:08] I kind of had a little bit of that.

[00:11:10] But.

[00:11:11] I still didn't truly ever think.

[00:11:12] My mom ever put.

[00:11:13] Men before me.

[00:11:15] But yeah.

[00:11:15] And I don't.

[00:11:16] I don't think your mom.

[00:11:17] Your mom has a totally different personality.

[00:11:18] In a.

[00:11:19] My mom.

[00:11:20] Is a mom.

[00:11:21] In all the senses.

[00:11:22] Yeah.

[00:11:23] Right.

[00:11:23] Where my mom is just like.

[00:11:25] Okay.

[00:11:25] I have a man in my life.

[00:11:26] I'm going to put this man first.

[00:11:28] Like.

[00:11:28] I've all.

[00:11:29] Yeah.

[00:11:29] Your mom's definitely done that.

[00:11:31] Yeah.

[00:11:32] Several times.

[00:11:35] So that's where it bothers me.

[00:11:37] Because it's just like.

[00:11:38] It's like you're putting David first.

[00:11:41] Yeah.

[00:11:42] That's how I.

[00:11:42] That's how I'm seeing.

[00:11:43] It's like you're putting David first.

[00:11:45] You're not putting your kids first.

[00:11:46] Because me.

[00:11:47] I would always put my children first.

[00:11:51] Honestly.

[00:11:51] I would always put first before.

[00:11:53] Before.

[00:11:55] Him.

[00:11:55] You know what I mean?

[00:11:56] We know his name.

[00:11:57] Well I do.

[00:11:58] Yeah.

[00:11:58] Like that's just how it's going to be.

[00:12:01] Absolutely.

[00:12:01] Like that's my.

[00:12:02] That's my child.

[00:12:03] That's just what it is.

[00:12:04] That's just what it is.

[00:12:05] And I think even to.

[00:12:07] Turn around and put it on him too.

[00:12:10] I don't think.

[00:12:12] Nameless.

[00:12:13] Will ever expect you to do that.

[00:12:16] Right.

[00:12:16] Right.

[00:12:17] So.

[00:12:17] It's just kind of like.

[00:12:19] That's the other part of it.

[00:12:21] It's respecting both.

[00:12:23] It's respecting both my daughter.

[00:12:24] And both.

[00:12:25] My.

[00:12:25] My partner.

[00:12:26] Right.

[00:12:27] And.

[00:12:27] That's a respect.

[00:12:28] That for him too.

[00:12:30] It's like he's coming from that perspective.

[00:12:32] He's much younger than David.

[00:12:34] Obviously.

[00:12:35] Right.

[00:12:36] And.

[00:12:36] At the time where you guys first started dating.

[00:12:38] Because guys.

[00:12:39] They've been together a really long time.

[00:12:40] He wasn't a father.

[00:12:43] And he still had that mentality.

[00:12:45] Now obviously he's.

[00:12:46] Very close to being one.

[00:12:48] But it's.

[00:12:50] But it's.

[00:12:51] He looks at my child as his own.

[00:12:55] Yeah.

[00:12:55] Because if he buys me something.

[00:12:57] Like say for example.

[00:12:58] Like on our anniversary.

[00:12:59] He bought me flowers.

[00:13:01] He damn sure made sure he bought.

[00:13:03] He bought my child.

[00:13:04] Some flowers.

[00:13:06] That's right.

[00:13:07] Right.

[00:13:07] So he's never leaving.

[00:13:09] He's never leaving her out.

[00:13:10] Right.

[00:13:11] He's never left her out.

[00:13:12] He's always like.

[00:13:13] Okay.

[00:13:14] But what about.

[00:13:14] What about the child?

[00:13:16] And what are we going to do with the child?

[00:13:17] And that's really good.

[00:13:19] Yeah.

[00:13:20] Because obviously with everything.

[00:13:21] That's going to be happening.

[00:13:22] Like.

[00:13:24] Like she's going to become a big sister.

[00:13:27] Very soon.

[00:13:28] And again.

[00:13:30] I was her age.

[00:13:33] When.

[00:13:33] I became a big sister.

[00:13:35] In you know.

[00:13:36] The physical sense.

[00:13:38] We need to get into it.

[00:13:39] And.

[00:13:39] I'll help.

[00:13:40] And you're good?

[00:13:42] We're good.

[00:13:43] Okay.

[00:13:43] Um.

[00:13:44] So it's good to kind of have that.

[00:13:46] Because you also.

[00:13:47] Want to be sure that she.

[00:13:49] Always feels included.

[00:13:51] Because there is going to be.

[00:13:51] A huge transition.

[00:13:53] With.

[00:13:54] With baby coming too.

[00:13:55] And I want her.

[00:13:56] I want.

[00:13:56] I want her to be so involved.

[00:13:59] Yeah.

[00:13:59] Like I want her.

[00:14:00] Like.

[00:14:00] She already told me.

[00:14:01] I'm not changing pooey pampers.

[00:14:03] I'm just like.

[00:14:04] Yes.

[00:14:04] You are a trick.

[00:14:05] I mean.

[00:14:06] I never did.

[00:14:07] I never changed poo poo diapers.

[00:14:09] With my brother.

[00:14:10] I think the only time I ever did.

[00:14:12] Was when.

[00:14:13] I was a little older.

[00:14:14] And he was still.

[00:14:15] Because he was still in diapers.

[00:14:16] Until he was like.

[00:14:17] In going to school.

[00:14:18] That's a whole thing.

[00:14:19] We don't need to get into.

[00:14:21] Um.

[00:14:21] It's hard to.

[00:14:22] Straight up Leticia.

[00:14:24] It is harder to body train boys.

[00:14:25] Just telling you.

[00:14:27] You got a whole dad.

[00:14:28] To go and help him out there.

[00:14:30] Yeah.

[00:14:30] I think.

[00:14:31] I think it's more about the fact.

[00:14:32] That they're just.

[00:14:33] I think with girls.

[00:14:34] We don't want to be in our filth.

[00:14:36] It's just.

[00:14:37] Biologically.

[00:14:38] We just don't want to be in our own filth.

[00:14:40] Boys don't give a fuck.

[00:14:41] They don't.

[00:14:42] Like.

[00:14:43] They did not care.

[00:14:44] Like.

[00:14:45] Side note.

[00:14:45] I went to my hairdresser.

[00:14:46] To go get my hair.

[00:14:47] To go get my hair done.

[00:14:49] Um.

[00:14:50] And.

[00:14:51] Her son.

[00:14:52] Like.

[00:14:52] Her last son.

[00:14:53] She has five kids.

[00:14:54] So.

[00:14:55] Her last is a boy.

[00:14:57] And he's two.

[00:14:58] And like.

[00:14:59] I mean.

[00:14:59] This little boy was climbing on chairs.

[00:15:01] Jumping off on the floor.

[00:15:04] Kicking.

[00:15:04] Punching.

[00:15:05] Hollering.

[00:15:06] And I'm just like.

[00:15:07] Absolutely.

[00:15:08] Not.

[00:15:09] I was getting hurt.

[00:15:10] Her hair done.

[00:15:13] Um.

[00:15:14] And then we're both looking at each other like.

[00:15:19] Bless your child's heart.

[00:15:21] If he ever did.

[00:15:22] And then she fully.

[00:15:23] If he ever did.

[00:15:25] She fully says to me.

[00:15:26] That can't be my baby brother.

[00:15:29] That can't be my baby brother.

[00:15:31] And I'm just like.

[00:15:31] Do you know who his dad is?

[00:15:33] Not only.

[00:15:34] Even.

[00:15:35] Not only even that.

[00:15:38] Who his mother is.

[00:15:39] Okay.

[00:15:40] That is never going to happen.

[00:15:42] It is never going to happen.

[00:15:45] Absolutely not.

[00:15:46] But that's exactly it.

[00:15:47] That drives me nuts about some parents.

[00:15:49] This little boy was literally.

[00:15:51] Punching his young.

[00:15:52] Punching his sister.

[00:15:54] Kicking her.

[00:15:55] Spitting at her.

[00:15:57] And I'm just like.

[00:15:58] Oh.

[00:15:59] Are you not gonna.

[00:16:00] And this is an African household that I'm in.

[00:16:04] And I'm just like.

[00:16:05] So.

[00:16:06] Are you not gonna let that happen?

[00:16:09] And again.

[00:16:10] My daughter and I are looking at each other like.

[00:16:13] Absolutely not.

[00:16:14] Because if my son.

[00:16:16] Was to hit my daughter.

[00:16:18] Please believe.

[00:16:19] Your ass is getting a cut ass.

[00:16:21] Because.

[00:16:22] You're going to learn at a young age.

[00:16:23] That you don't hit women.

[00:16:24] You don't hit anybody.

[00:16:26] You don't hit anybody.

[00:16:27] You don't hit anybody.

[00:16:28] Especially when it comes to a woman.

[00:16:29] You don't touch them.

[00:16:31] My child.

[00:16:32] My children will know.

[00:16:33] That no means no.

[00:16:35] You keep your hands to your damn self.

[00:16:37] Unless someone touches you.

[00:16:39] But let them touch you first.

[00:16:40] And that's when you throw hands.

[00:16:42] But.

[00:16:43] You have to learn from a woman's point of view.

[00:16:44] That no means no.

[00:16:46] Even from a.

[00:16:47] Even from a man's point of view.

[00:16:49] If you have like.

[00:16:50] You know.

[00:16:50] Your man friends.

[00:16:51] Your woman friends.

[00:16:52] No means no.

[00:16:54] And it's the same thing.

[00:16:56] No means.

[00:16:57] You have to cut her name out of this.

[00:16:59] Sorry.

[00:16:59] Oh yeah.

[00:17:00] Yeah.

[00:17:00] No means no.

[00:17:02] You have to respect.

[00:17:05] People's boundaries.

[00:17:07] Man or woman.

[00:17:09] Children.

[00:17:10] Young adults.

[00:17:11] Whatever.

[00:17:12] No means no.

[00:17:14] Mm-hmm.

[00:17:15] If I'm not interested in a relationship.

[00:17:16] That doesn't mean you stalk me.

[00:17:18] And you try to hurt me.

[00:17:19] That doesn't mean you try to touch me.

[00:17:21] Or try to do anything.

[00:17:22] The answer is no.

[00:17:23] No.

[00:17:24] There are too many girls.

[00:17:26] And boys.

[00:17:28] That get upset.

[00:17:31] When the.

[00:17:31] When.

[00:17:32] Either sex.

[00:17:33] Says no.

[00:17:34] And they don't know boundaries.

[00:17:36] That's when the stalking comes.

[00:17:38] They're hurting the person.

[00:17:40] Or they're even killing the person.

[00:17:41] All because they were rejected.

[00:17:44] Absolutely not.

[00:17:45] My children will know.

[00:17:47] We don't do that.

[00:17:49] You don't go after nobody that says no.

[00:17:51] If they said no.

[00:17:52] They said no.

[00:17:52] And respect it.

[00:17:53] And move it.

[00:17:54] And move on.

[00:17:55] Plenty of other puss.

[00:17:56] And dick in the sea.

[00:17:59] Find it somewhere else.

[00:18:03] But yeah.

[00:18:04] But yeah.

[00:18:05] I will continue on.

[00:18:08] So were we done talking about Chrissy and David?

[00:18:10] Because I know I think that's what we're talking about.

[00:18:12] I'm done talking about them.

[00:18:13] Because they just drive me up a wall.

[00:18:14] Okay.

[00:18:16] So yes.

[00:18:16] Anyway.

[00:18:17] So Mary's moving.

[00:18:18] Yay!

[00:18:19] And weirdly.

[00:18:21] She says I didn't do this on purpose.

[00:18:23] I don't believe her.

[00:18:24] But she.

[00:18:25] I think.

[00:18:26] And that's fine.

[00:18:26] Do it on your anniversary.

[00:18:28] Who cares?

[00:18:29] Yeah.

[00:18:29] That is some karma.

[00:18:31] And she just happened to have a clean shirt that says karma on it.

[00:18:35] Come on girl.

[00:18:36] Come on girl.

[00:18:37] She knew.

[00:18:37] Mary knew.

[00:18:38] Of course she did.

[00:18:39] She knew exactly what she was doing.

[00:18:42] Maybe there's a world where you picked the date.

[00:18:46] And maybe didn't realize it at first.

[00:18:48] But you eventually did.

[00:18:50] Long before this move.

[00:18:52] And you're like let me go find a shirt that says karma on it.

[00:18:56] Yep.

[00:18:56] Because.

[00:18:58] Come on.

[00:18:59] But yes.

[00:18:59] Yep.

[00:19:01] It wasn't her brother.

[00:19:02] It wasn't her brother-in-law.

[00:19:03] Brother-in-law.

[00:19:04] Her brother-in-law irritated me.

[00:19:05] With the whole thing of pushing Mary right into Cody.

[00:19:08] And then like shoving that.

[00:19:09] So that's.

[00:19:10] Where am I next?

[00:19:11] So.

[00:19:12] That irritated me.

[00:19:13] Yes.

[00:19:14] That is exactly what happened.

[00:19:15] I think it was Nathan.

[00:19:16] He.

[00:19:17] Pushed.

[00:19:18] This.

[00:19:20] Exercise bike.

[00:19:22] Into.

[00:19:23] Mary.

[00:19:23] Mary.

[00:19:24] Which then backed up onto Cody.

[00:19:27] In a very sexual manner.

[00:19:29] Now.

[00:19:30] Right.

[00:19:31] If anyone knows.

[00:19:32] We've all done something.

[00:19:33] A little similar to what we just saw there on the show.

[00:19:36] Everyone's done that.

[00:19:38] Yeah.

[00:19:39] Of course.

[00:19:39] And.

[00:19:41] Um.

[00:19:43] She's like.

[00:19:45] Dying.

[00:19:46] He's like.

[00:19:47] I'm gonna punch you in the face.

[00:19:49] To Nathan.

[00:19:51] And everyone's just dying.

[00:19:52] She's like.

[00:19:52] I have not been that close to him.

[00:19:54] In like.

[00:19:55] Eight or nine years.

[00:19:56] Which is really sad.

[00:19:58] Um.

[00:19:59] He's like.

[00:20:00] I have a wife.

[00:20:02] But of course.

[00:20:03] I have her.

[00:20:04] I don't mean to cut you off.

[00:20:05] Sorry.

[00:20:06] Go ahead.

[00:20:06] You're laughing and giggling.

[00:20:08] And joking about it.

[00:20:09] This and that.

[00:20:09] But then you're just like.

[00:20:10] Oh.

[00:20:12] My wife.

[00:20:13] Yes.

[00:20:13] All of them.

[00:20:14] You got so serious about Robin.

[00:20:16] Yes.

[00:20:17] He's like.

[00:20:18] It's like.

[00:20:18] I know it was a joke.

[00:20:20] Blah blah blah.

[00:20:21] But that's.

[00:20:21] That was wrong.

[00:20:22] That was wrong.

[00:20:22] I have a wife.

[00:20:23] Me and Robin are in a monogamous relationship.

[00:20:26] And I'm like.

[00:20:27] Motherfuck.

[00:20:28] Shit.

[00:20:29] If you told Robin.

[00:20:31] That this happened.

[00:20:32] She would have jumped for joy.

[00:20:33] Are you kidding?

[00:20:34] She would be perfectly fine.

[00:20:36] If you wanted to get down and dirty with Mary.

[00:20:39] They touched each other.

[00:20:40] Like.

[00:20:41] Like.

[00:20:42] If your penis just happened to accidentally slip into Mary.

[00:20:45] She'd be ecstatic.

[00:20:46] I'm just.

[00:20:47] I don't know.

[00:20:48] Yeah.

[00:20:48] Because she never.

[00:20:49] She never wanted the monogamous relationship anyways.

[00:20:51] No.

[00:20:52] Of course not.

[00:20:53] Mary was her last hope.

[00:20:56] She'd be so thrilled.

[00:20:58] But.

[00:20:59] Also.

[00:21:00] Again.

[00:21:00] It was just a joke.

[00:21:02] It isn't.

[00:21:03] You don't have to take it that far.

[00:21:05] And be like.

[00:21:05] I'm just.

[00:21:06] Dedicated to Robin.

[00:21:07] And you know.

[00:21:08] Robin this.

[00:21:09] And Robin that.

[00:21:09] I'm like.

[00:21:10] Yeah.

[00:21:10] So it's just.

[00:21:11] It's not that big of a deal.

[00:21:13] It.

[00:21:13] It.

[00:21:13] It didn't have to.

[00:21:14] Be this.

[00:21:15] You cheated on.

[00:21:16] I cheated on my wife.

[00:21:17] With Mary backing into me.

[00:21:18] Like.

[00:21:19] What?

[00:21:21] Anyways.

[00:21:24] Take a quick pause from them.

[00:21:26] Janelle is over at Christine's.

[00:21:29] She's meeting David today.

[00:21:30] Yay.

[00:21:31] The only thing I want to mention here.

[00:21:32] Because I don't care.

[00:21:33] I don't even talk about when Janelle meets him.

[00:21:37] Her and Maddie found property.

[00:21:40] And it's currently.

[00:21:41] Yes.

[00:21:42] So.

[00:21:43] That's great.

[00:21:44] It works out for everybody.

[00:21:45] Caleb doesn't have to.

[00:21:47] Like.

[00:21:47] Change his job or anything.

[00:21:48] So it's great.

[00:21:49] Right.

[00:21:49] And it's a farm.

[00:21:51] So.

[00:21:51] Everybody's happy.

[00:21:53] I would hope so.

[00:21:54] Yeah.

[00:21:55] So.

[00:21:58] Cody.

[00:21:59] Talks about.

[00:22:00] This.

[00:22:00] This was kind of mixed into other conversation.

[00:22:03] Someone.

[00:22:04] I can't remember who exactly it was.

[00:22:05] Kind of.

[00:22:06] I think it was my dimension now.

[00:22:07] Mentions that.

[00:22:08] He kind of is this kind of person.

[00:22:10] Who.

[00:22:11] Will.

[00:22:12] Hit.

[00:22:13] A button.

[00:22:14] That he knows.

[00:22:15] Will affect the person.

[00:22:16] So for example.

[00:22:18] For Christine.

[00:22:19] That was him saying.

[00:22:21] I'm no longer.

[00:22:22] Attracted to you.

[00:22:23] Or successfully attracted to you.

[00:22:25] Or whatever.

[00:22:25] It was that she said.

[00:22:27] And that is kind of the thing.

[00:22:28] That he knows.

[00:22:29] Will hurt Christine.

[00:22:31] So then.

[00:22:33] Cody.

[00:22:34] Says.

[00:22:36] I.

[00:22:37] Told Janelle.

[00:22:38] That.

[00:22:39] I wasn't attracted to Christine.

[00:22:42] When I was moving my stuff.

[00:22:45] Out of Christine's house.

[00:22:47] To Janelle's house.

[00:22:48] So he's blaming Janelle.

[00:22:51] For telling Christine that.

[00:22:53] But let me remind you all.

[00:22:56] That doesn't make sense.

[00:22:58] Because.

[00:23:00] That whole situation.

[00:23:02] If we remember.

[00:23:03] Christine.

[00:23:04] Christine.

[00:23:04] Was recording.

[00:23:05] A video.

[00:23:06] On her cell phone.

[00:23:07] Saying.

[00:23:08] She no longer wants.

[00:23:10] To be physically intimate.

[00:23:11] With me.

[00:23:12] He.

[00:23:13] Wants me or whatever.

[00:23:14] To be in the sexless marriage.

[00:23:16] And I don't want that.

[00:23:18] So I'm going to pack his shit.

[00:23:20] And he's going to move out of the house.

[00:23:23] She comes home.

[00:23:25] Sees all of his shit.

[00:23:26] In the garage.

[00:23:28] And.

[00:23:30] He's like.

[00:23:31] I don't know what's happening here.

[00:23:33] And then he moves his stuff out.

[00:23:36] So.

[00:23:37] How is it even possible.

[00:23:39] That you're saying.

[00:23:41] You told Janelle.

[00:23:42] That you weren't attracted to Christine anymore.

[00:23:44] While you're moving your stuff out.

[00:23:45] That's not true.

[00:23:47] You told Christine that.

[00:23:49] So Christine kicked you out.

[00:23:51] So you can't blame Janelle.

[00:23:53] For telling Christine anything.

[00:23:55] Exactly.

[00:23:56] And not only that.

[00:23:57] He then follow.

[00:23:59] Ends this off by saying.

[00:24:00] That's so rude.

[00:24:02] That Janelle tells Christine.

[00:24:03] After I told Christine.

[00:24:05] Told Janelle.

[00:24:06] Why are you telling your other wife.

[00:24:08] Anything about your other wife.

[00:24:10] But I thought these were supposed to be kept.

[00:24:13] Private.

[00:24:15] Exactly.

[00:24:16] You're not supposed to bad mouth one wife.

[00:24:17] To the other wife.

[00:24:19] No.

[00:24:19] It's what you all said.

[00:24:21] Exactly.

[00:24:22] So it's Janelle's.

[00:24:24] Again at the end of the day.

[00:24:25] It's Janelle's fault.

[00:24:27] Yeah.

[00:24:27] Never Cody's fault.

[00:24:28] That anything falls apart.

[00:24:30] She doesn't take any responsibility.

[00:24:31] None.

[00:24:32] Whatsoever.

[00:24:34] And again.

[00:24:35] Anyone.

[00:24:35] If you recognize these traits.

[00:24:37] In anyone in your life.

[00:24:39] Abort.

[00:24:40] Because they are a narcissist.

[00:24:43] Real fast.

[00:24:43] Yes.

[00:24:43] Real fast.

[00:24:46] So.

[00:24:48] In.

[00:24:49] The next thing.

[00:24:51] So Christine and Janelle.

[00:24:53] Were kind of talking about the financial.

[00:24:55] Stuff within the family.

[00:24:56] Janelle's kind of filling her in.

[00:24:58] On the conversation she had with Mary.

[00:25:00] And Christine.

[00:25:02] Says.

[00:25:04] You know.

[00:25:05] If you needed anything financially.

[00:25:08] Cody was the one.

[00:25:10] Who would basically write you a check.

[00:25:12] From the.

[00:25:12] Family account.

[00:25:15] And.

[00:25:16] That's what would happen.

[00:25:18] So.

[00:25:19] This all.

[00:25:20] Kind of.

[00:25:21] Which is.

[00:25:22] To me.

[00:25:22] It feels like.

[00:25:23] Like.

[00:25:24] You get what you get.

[00:25:25] Your quote unquote.

[00:25:26] I guess.

[00:25:26] Allowance.

[00:25:27] From the family fund.

[00:25:29] And then.

[00:25:30] If you need anything over and beyond that.

[00:25:32] You have to ask permission.

[00:25:34] It feels like financial abuse.

[00:25:38] Absolutely.

[00:25:39] And.

[00:25:43] So.

[00:25:43] The whole thing.

[00:25:44] Kind of.

[00:25:44] To say.

[00:25:46] How can Janelle.

[00:25:47] Be the one.

[00:25:48] Controlling the money.

[00:25:50] If you had to go.

[00:25:51] And say to Cody.

[00:25:52] I need X, Y, and Z.

[00:25:54] And he's the one.

[00:25:55] Who writes the check.

[00:25:56] Exactly.

[00:25:57] And that's him.

[00:25:58] Controlling the money.

[00:25:59] Yep.

[00:26:00] Janelle's just the bookkeeper.

[00:26:01] As she says.

[00:26:02] I'm just the bookkeeper.

[00:26:03] I send off to the accountant.

[00:26:05] And.

[00:26:06] Earlier.

[00:26:07] Prior to this.

[00:26:08] That Christine says.

[00:26:09] Cody does kind of also say.

[00:26:11] Like.

[00:26:12] Well.

[00:26:14] I mean.

[00:26:14] I would kind of say.

[00:26:15] Where the money's going.

[00:26:16] And moving to.

[00:26:17] But like.

[00:26:18] Janelle.

[00:26:18] Janelle did that.

[00:26:19] Like.

[00:26:19] He's still deflecting.

[00:26:21] On to.

[00:26:23] Know what someone else.

[00:26:24] Who's doing.

[00:26:25] It's never me.

[00:26:26] I'm innocent.

[00:26:27] Of course.

[00:26:28] He drives me absolutely nuts.

[00:26:29] I can't with him.

[00:26:32] Anyway.

[00:26:36] Next thing.

[00:26:38] Y'all.

[00:26:40] Mary might not be the favorite wife.

[00:26:42] But she is the favorite ex-wife.

[00:26:45] He's the favorite ex-wife.

[00:26:46] He's the favorite ex-wife.

[00:26:48] Because.

[00:26:49] I mean.

[00:26:49] When you look at the competition.

[00:26:51] He hates Christine.

[00:26:54] He hates Janelle.

[00:26:55] Janelle.

[00:26:56] And he's kind of over it with Janelle.

[00:26:58] So.

[00:26:59] But if.

[00:27:00] He can get like.

[00:27:03] If he can get on better terms.

[00:27:06] With Janelle.

[00:27:06] Like it will never happen with Christine.

[00:27:08] But if he can get on better terms.

[00:27:09] With Janelle.

[00:27:09] Then she'll probably be the favorite ex-wife.

[00:27:11] Oh absolutely.

[00:27:12] He's so like.

[00:27:14] Fleeting.

[00:27:16] Wherever the wind carries him.

[00:27:18] What's that song.

[00:27:20] That Pocahontas sings.

[00:27:21] Wayne Godball.

[00:27:24] Wow.

[00:27:27] Like you were.

[00:27:29] Literally doing it.

[00:27:30] As I'm saying.

[00:27:31] What's that Pocahontas song?

[00:27:35] The colors of the wind.

[00:27:37] That's it.

[00:27:39] Wow.

[00:27:40] That was weird.

[00:27:41] That was weird.

[00:27:42] That was really weird.

[00:27:43] That we kind of just did that at the same time.

[00:27:46] That's exactly what you're talking about.

[00:27:47] Like what?

[00:27:51] Oh my.

[00:27:52] Oh man.

[00:27:54] Okay.

[00:27:54] So.

[00:27:56] So.

[00:27:56] With that being said though.

[00:27:58] Robin.

[00:28:00] With her miserable ass self.

[00:28:03] Everyone's laughing.

[00:28:05] Having fun.

[00:28:06] Doing their thing.

[00:28:07] And here comes Robin.

[00:28:09] With her misery.

[00:28:10] And is like.

[00:28:12] Just.

[00:28:13] Rudging up the thing.

[00:28:15] All sad.

[00:28:16] With her clown sad face.

[00:28:18] And she's like.

[00:28:20] Can we talk?

[00:28:21] Okay.

[00:28:22] Mary.

[00:28:23] Mary does not want to go talk.

[00:28:25] Mary's like.

[00:28:25] I'm loving life.

[00:28:27] Mary is happy right now.

[00:28:30] And she's like.

[00:28:33] I know this isn't goodbye.

[00:28:36] But.

[00:28:37] Like.

[00:28:39] I love you.

[00:28:40] I just.

[00:28:41] Wish you could stay.

[00:28:43] Mary's like.

[00:28:44] Fuck this.

[00:28:44] I don't.

[00:28:44] I don't want to do this.

[00:28:45] I don't want to do this right now.

[00:28:46] Stop manipulating the girl.

[00:28:48] And staying.

[00:28:48] She doesn't want to stay.

[00:28:49] She's leaving.

[00:28:50] And then Robin has the nerve to say.

[00:28:52] Anyone who thinks that I can manipulate Mary into doing anything is just laughable.

[00:28:56] And I'm like.

[00:28:57] But it doesn't mean that you won't fucking try.

[00:28:58] It's not about manipulating her and not to do something.

[00:29:02] It's just the fact that you're still using your tears.

[00:29:04] And just hoping.

[00:29:05] Maybe this time.

[00:29:07] I can get through to her.

[00:29:08] That's the whole definition of manipulation.

[00:29:10] manipulation.

[00:29:12] Like.

[00:29:14] I'm just.

[00:29:16] But let me give you this gift.

[00:29:19] It's called a junk journal.

[00:29:21] That looks like it came out of the junk.

[00:29:25] Okay.

[00:29:27] After I'm done.

[00:29:29] That would go straight in the garbage.

[00:29:30] Yeah.

[00:29:31] Hence.

[00:29:31] Junk journal.

[00:29:33] When I first saw this.

[00:29:35] Both of me and my mom were watching.

[00:29:37] And we're like.

[00:29:38] What the fuck is that?

[00:29:40] And my mom's like.

[00:29:41] Uh.

[00:29:42] And I'm like.

[00:29:43] It's ugly.

[00:29:44] I just started laughing.

[00:29:45] Cause I'm like.

[00:29:46] It is.

[00:29:46] So ugly.

[00:29:47] Because.

[00:29:48] Y'all.

[00:29:49] She can give her a little piece of an angel.

[00:29:52] Cause there's an angel on the cover of this journal.

[00:29:54] Like.

[00:29:54] If you didn't see this journal.

[00:29:56] Go back.

[00:29:56] Watch it.

[00:29:57] And just.

[00:29:58] Look at this.

[00:29:59] It is.

[00:30:00] I understand the.

[00:30:02] The whole junk journal thing.

[00:30:03] I'm not against the whole junk journal thing.

[00:30:06] But like.

[00:30:06] It's just the junk journal thing.

[00:30:08] That she created.

[00:30:09] Is ugly.

[00:30:11] As hell.

[00:30:13] And.

[00:30:15] She's like.

[00:30:16] You know.

[00:30:16] She can just write her.

[00:30:17] Her hopes and her dreams.

[00:30:19] For you know.

[00:30:19] For her new life.

[00:30:21] And.

[00:30:22] Yeah.

[00:30:22] That's.

[00:30:23] That's why I did it.

[00:30:24] Shut the fuck up.

[00:30:25] First of all.

[00:30:25] Stop crying.

[00:30:27] Okay.

[00:30:28] Like.

[00:30:28] Just stop.

[00:30:29] She's always crying.

[00:30:31] Just stop crying.

[00:30:32] Like Sarper said.

[00:30:33] To Tata.

[00:30:34] She cries.

[00:30:35] You cry too much.

[00:30:36] It's annoying.

[00:30:37] But you cry too much.

[00:30:39] Oh.

[00:30:40] Sarper is my favorite person.

[00:30:41] I'm sorry.

[00:30:42] Sarper.

[00:30:42] Oh yeah.

[00:30:43] He's my favorite person.

[00:30:44] Because he speaks truth.

[00:30:46] And honestly.

[00:30:47] Like Sarper the therapist up there.

[00:30:49] Anyway.

[00:30:50] Um.

[00:30:51] I think.

[00:30:52] You know what?

[00:30:53] Screw that lady.

[00:30:55] I do like her.

[00:30:56] I can't remember her name.

[00:30:56] But I like her and everything.

[00:30:58] Get Sarper.

[00:30:59] To host these one-on-one things.

[00:31:01] Oh.

[00:31:02] My God.

[00:31:05] I don't know who needs to hear this.

[00:31:07] Sean does not answer.

[00:31:08] Does not ask.

[00:31:09] The appropriate questions that we need to ask.

[00:31:11] Well not even just that.

[00:31:12] I'm talking.

[00:31:13] Sarper needs to be one-on-one with these people on Sister Wives.

[00:31:16] And knock some sense into some people.

[00:31:17] But that's what I mean.

[00:31:18] But.

[00:31:19] Yes.

[00:31:20] Sean.

[00:31:22] Sean.

[00:31:23] Sean's.

[00:31:24] I love.

[00:31:24] I love to see Sean.

[00:31:26] She looks amazing.

[00:31:27] My mom's like.

[00:31:28] She's going to be doing this when she's 80.

[00:31:30] Looking like she's 40.

[00:31:32] She looks like she lost weight.

[00:31:34] Sean?

[00:31:34] Yeah.

[00:31:35] She's always been a skinny woman.

[00:31:37] She doesn't look any different.

[00:31:39] Um.

[00:31:40] But she looks like.

[00:31:41] She's.

[00:31:41] She's incredible.

[00:31:42] She looks incredible.

[00:31:42] She's like.

[00:31:43] 60 years old.

[00:31:44] And she looks 30.

[00:31:45] She's.

[00:31:46] She's incredible.

[00:31:47] You didn't know she's got up.

[00:31:48] She's that up in age?

[00:31:49] Oh yeah.

[00:31:50] She's like almost 60.

[00:31:51] If not already 60.

[00:31:54] Yeah.

[00:31:55] Oh wow.

[00:31:56] Okay.

[00:31:56] Okay.

[00:31:57] Black don't crack y'all.

[00:31:59] Anyway.

[00:31:59] Oh wow.

[00:32:00] So.

[00:32:03] She asked certain questions that.

[00:32:06] I thought was.

[00:32:07] Decent.

[00:32:08] Like questioning.

[00:32:09] Like Josh and Lily.

[00:32:11] Like.

[00:32:12] Why do you want to be in this relationship?

[00:32:14] Even though you ain't having sex.

[00:32:16] The ending of.

[00:32:17] The ending of Josh and Lily's thing.

[00:32:19] I'm just like.

[00:32:20] Why don't you fuck my mom?

[00:32:24] Yo.

[00:32:28] I'm sorry.

[00:32:29] But.

[00:32:29] She needs to stay.

[00:32:30] She needs to stay on a child's place.

[00:32:32] But.

[00:32:33] The reason why she has that comfortability to do that is because.

[00:32:37] They're so close.

[00:32:39] They're best friends.

[00:32:40] Lily said that.

[00:32:41] So that's why she feels comfortable to say that.

[00:32:43] But at the same time.

[00:32:45] Like.

[00:32:45] I wouldn't particularly ask someone.

[00:32:46] That above my mom.

[00:32:48] But I would question.

[00:32:49] Why the hell aren't you.

[00:32:50] Don't you not find her attractive?

[00:32:52] Like.

[00:32:57] My mom's like.

[00:32:58] She says fuck a lot.

[00:33:00] She said.

[00:33:01] How often was it?

[00:33:03] Why don't you fuck my mom?

[00:33:04] Why don't you fuck my mom?

[00:33:06] It's like.

[00:33:07] It's like bro.

[00:33:10] Do you need to get fucked?

[00:33:12] Did you see how.

[00:33:14] Oh.

[00:33:14] I think she is.

[00:33:15] Do you see that house?

[00:33:16] That's someone else's house.

[00:33:18] That is someone else's house.

[00:33:20] And that guy is rich.

[00:33:22] That's all I'm saying.

[00:33:23] You can find me a Chinese man.

[00:33:25] Chinese business man.

[00:33:27] I'm telling you.

[00:33:29] We will do anything for you.

[00:33:30] Hold your bag.

[00:33:31] Hold your earrings.

[00:33:33] Give you money.

[00:33:35] Right?

[00:33:36] That's what I want.

[00:33:38] So.

[00:33:39] But.

[00:33:41] The.

[00:33:42] Did you see how happy Lily was when she saw Jared on the stage?

[00:33:45] She's like.

[00:33:46] Hi.

[00:33:47] Josh is there.

[00:33:48] She's like.

[00:33:49] I gave it a three.

[00:33:51] She.

[00:33:51] She.

[00:33:51] She should have just married Jared.

[00:33:54] That's.

[00:33:55] That literally.

[00:33:56] Buyer's remorse.

[00:33:58] What?

[00:33:59] I went to the wrong brother.

[00:34:03] Like my gosh.

[00:34:05] Oh.

[00:34:05] Shoot.

[00:34:07] Um.

[00:34:07] I've definitely had buyer's remorse before.

[00:34:10] Definitely had that.

[00:34:12] Um.

[00:34:14] So.

[00:34:16] Anyway.

[00:34:17] Back to these people.

[00:34:19] Um.

[00:34:19] Um.

[00:34:21] Yeah.

[00:34:21] So Robin basically leaves after all of that.

[00:34:24] Doesn't even say goodbye to Cody.

[00:34:26] And Cody's just hanging out of the truck like.

[00:34:28] Bye.

[00:34:29] And she just kind of looks back at him.

[00:34:31] And.

[00:34:31] She didn't say shit.

[00:34:33] Because as Cody said earlier.

[00:34:35] She's not well bitch.

[00:34:37] She's not well.

[00:34:39] She's not well.

[00:34:41] Like come on now.

[00:34:42] Anyway.

[00:34:44] Um.

[00:34:45] So Mary is thinking about burning the family mission statement.

[00:34:49] Since.

[00:34:50] Well that didn't work out.

[00:34:51] Might as well.

[00:34:52] Yeah.

[00:34:52] Might as well.

[00:34:53] Have a burning ceremony.

[00:34:55] Do up a little campfire.

[00:34:57] And do.

[00:34:58] Some sort of dance around.

[00:35:00] I don't know.

[00:35:01] Just.

[00:35:02] Yeah.

[00:35:03] That's what I would do.

[00:35:03] But you might as well.

[00:35:05] Yeah.

[00:35:06] Like.

[00:35:06] What else are you going to do with it?

[00:35:08] Keep it?

[00:35:09] Yeah.

[00:35:10] That's what I would.

[00:35:11] Keep it.

[00:35:12] Someone would actually probably buy that on eBay.

[00:35:15] She could sell it.

[00:35:17] Holy shit.

[00:35:20] Um.

[00:35:21] So.

[00:35:21] At this point they're in Parowan.

[00:35:24] And.

[00:35:24] He says.

[00:35:26] You know.

[00:35:27] If you have.

[00:35:29] A good relationship with an ex-wife.

[00:35:31] It's like brother and sister.

[00:35:34] Sir.

[00:35:36] As soon as you have seen me naked.

[00:35:38] At any point.

[00:35:39] In any time.

[00:35:40] We're not brother nor sister.

[00:35:41] Thank you.

[00:35:42] That's.

[00:35:42] What kind of incest shit.

[00:35:45] Is that?

[00:35:46] Like.

[00:35:47] That's disgusting.

[00:35:48] We've had sex.

[00:35:49] Probably many a time.

[00:35:51] Even though it hasn't happened in eight years.

[00:35:53] You have a child.

[00:35:55] That's weird.

[00:35:57] Brother and sister.

[00:35:58] Anyways.

[00:35:59] For some reason.

[00:36:00] We decided.

[00:36:01] We're going to take Cody.

[00:36:02] To go see Mary's bedroom.

[00:36:04] Which is.

[00:36:06] No matter how you put it.

[00:36:07] It's weird.

[00:36:09] I don't know why we have to do this.

[00:36:11] But we're doing this.

[00:36:13] So.

[00:36:14] When he's getting ready to leave.

[00:36:16] Maybe I would just remind you.

[00:36:17] We have Nathan and Jen.

[00:36:19] Over in the corner.

[00:36:20] Just kind of twiddling their thumbs.

[00:36:22] Looking up at the ceiling.

[00:36:23] Because they don't want to.

[00:36:24] They feel like they're intruding.

[00:36:25] And I'm like.

[00:36:26] Maybe you should just.

[00:36:27] I don't.

[00:36:28] Leave.

[00:36:29] Because.

[00:36:30] They're having a.

[00:36:32] Moment.

[00:36:33] They're having a moment.

[00:36:34] Instead of turning your head.

[00:36:37] They did.

[00:36:38] It was awkward.

[00:36:39] Cody's having a moment.

[00:36:40] Cody's having a moment.

[00:36:41] And Mary's like.

[00:36:42] What is happening?

[00:36:43] Right?

[00:36:45] What is happening here?

[00:36:46] My face was the best.

[00:36:48] He's like.

[00:36:50] Well.

[00:36:51] It's an end of my era.

[00:36:53] And.

[00:36:54] You know what?

[00:36:55] Like.

[00:36:57] We had something special.

[00:36:58] You're now realizing.

[00:36:59] You had something special?

[00:37:00] When this bitch was trying.

[00:37:02] For how long to be with you?

[00:37:03] But you didn't give two shits.

[00:37:04] About being with her.

[00:37:05] All you cared about.

[00:37:06] Was trying to fix your relationship.

[00:37:07] With Robin.

[00:37:07] And Robin was a prize winner.

[00:37:09] Your.

[00:37:09] Your.

[00:37:10] Your pride and joy.

[00:37:11] And her children.

[00:37:12] And the children that you made with her.

[00:37:14] Like.

[00:37:14] Are you serious?

[00:37:15] We.

[00:37:16] Had.

[00:37:16] Something.

[00:37:18] Special.

[00:37:20] Motherfucker.

[00:37:20] Do not gaslight me.

[00:37:23] How?

[00:37:24] How did we have something special?

[00:37:25] Because according to you.

[00:37:27] Many a time.

[00:37:28] Through these past few seasons.

[00:37:30] She was a horrible person.

[00:37:32] To live with.

[00:37:33] She changed up.

[00:37:34] After you got married.

[00:37:36] Well.

[00:37:36] Who knew.

[00:37:37] That someone at 19.

[00:37:38] Couldn't change.

[00:37:40] And.

[00:37:41] It doesn't happen all the damn time.

[00:37:43] Right.

[00:37:44] And.

[00:37:46] You're saying.

[00:37:46] She was a nightmare.

[00:37:47] To be with.

[00:37:48] We had something special.

[00:37:50] But.

[00:37:50] Does it matter?

[00:37:51] That we had something special?

[00:37:52] Make up your mind.

[00:37:53] Please.

[00:37:56] Like.

[00:37:56] I'm going crazy.

[00:37:58] And Mary's like.

[00:37:59] What is happening?

[00:38:01] We had something special.

[00:38:03] You ruined it.

[00:38:05] And claiming that we did.

[00:38:06] Like.

[00:38:07] We had something special.

[00:38:09] I would have.

[00:38:10] You saw those stairs you came up on.

[00:38:12] I'm gonna push you down them.

[00:38:15] That's what I would have done.

[00:38:17] But we had something special.

[00:38:19] And if you get hurt.

[00:38:20] I plead the fifth.

[00:38:22] Right.

[00:38:23] I didn't push him your honor.

[00:38:25] He fell.

[00:38:29] How did he fall?

[00:38:30] I have no idea.

[00:38:31] I don't know.

[00:38:32] I mean.

[00:38:32] I'm pretty sure the house is probably haunted.

[00:38:34] So maybe one of my family members pushed him down the stairs.

[00:38:36] I don't know.

[00:38:38] Maybe my mom did it for me.

[00:38:40] I am done.

[00:38:43] I am done.

[00:38:46] But yeah.

[00:38:46] He said we had something special.

[00:38:47] And just went to shit.

[00:38:49] He didn't say shit.

[00:38:50] I said shit.

[00:38:51] But anyways.

[00:38:52] Like what?

[00:38:54] He's like.

[00:38:54] I'm mourning.

[00:38:56] A loss.

[00:38:57] The loss of your life.

[00:38:59] That's what you're going to be mourning.

[00:39:03] I'm mourning.

[00:39:05] I'm mourning.

[00:39:06] I'm mourning a loss.

[00:39:07] I'm mourning a loss.

[00:39:09] Sir.

[00:39:10] You didn't give two fucks.

[00:39:14] Well two shits.

[00:39:16] And she had zero fucks.

[00:39:18] About this relationship.

[00:39:19] For the past eight years.

[00:39:20] But you're mourning a loss.

[00:39:23] Thank you.

[00:39:26] I'm confused.

[00:39:29] I'm confused.

[00:39:32] He's like.

[00:39:34] I'm sorry.

[00:39:36] For the past seven years.

[00:39:38] The past seven years.

[00:39:39] Where you did.

[00:39:40] Now you're sorry?

[00:39:40] Dickle.

[00:39:42] Where she was begging you.

[00:39:43] To try to make this work.

[00:39:45] Now you're sorry.

[00:39:46] For those seven years.

[00:39:49] You gotta kick rocks.

[00:39:51] Yeah.

[00:39:52] I kicked them hard.

[00:39:53] Fuck up your feet.

[00:39:56] Anyway.

[00:39:58] Um.

[00:40:00] So.

[00:40:02] He also says.

[00:40:03] That if she were to get remarried.

[00:40:06] I'll walk her down the aisle.

[00:40:08] Oh yeah y'all.

[00:40:10] Yeah.

[00:40:11] Have you met the guys?

[00:40:12] Walking me down the aisle.

[00:40:12] Yeah.

[00:40:13] That's my ex-husband.

[00:40:14] Yeah.

[00:40:14] My ex-husband walked me down the aisle.

[00:40:15] Yeah.

[00:40:17] I know.

[00:40:17] It's weird huh?

[00:40:18] But.

[00:40:19] I don't have anyone else.

[00:40:21] He offered.

[00:40:22] It's fine.

[00:40:22] What the fuck?

[00:40:24] That's.

[00:40:27] That's like.

[00:40:29] If things were.

[00:40:30] We will need to go into logistics.

[00:40:32] But that's not like my ex-husband walking me down the aisle.

[00:40:36] If I was marrying someone else.

[00:40:39] That's weird.

[00:40:43] There are so many other people that I could ask before you.

[00:40:48] So many.

[00:40:48] So many.

[00:40:54] So many.

[00:40:54] The only person.

[00:40:55] These are the words.

[00:40:56] I don't.

[00:40:57] Because.

[00:40:57] It's like.

[00:40:59] The only person.

[00:41:01] From me in my life.

[00:41:02] That would walk me down the aisle.

[00:41:04] Is my.

[00:41:05] Is my last brother.

[00:41:06] Can you imagine.

[00:41:08] Well that makes sense.

[00:41:09] But can you imagine.

[00:41:11] If he went.

[00:41:12] I'll take his name out.

[00:41:14] Can you imagine.

[00:41:15] If he went to be like.

[00:41:15] Hey.

[00:41:16] Could you want me to.

[00:41:23] That can't happen.

[00:41:26] Ooh child.

[00:41:29] That can't happen.

[00:41:31] First of all.

[00:41:32] I would have questions.

[00:41:34] Like if you came to me one day.

[00:41:36] I would have to.

[00:41:37] I would have to question myself.

[00:41:41] Like I would literally.

[00:41:42] Have to question myself.

[00:41:44] And ask myself.

[00:41:44] Are you okay.

[00:41:47] Like in the mirror.

[00:41:48] We like.

[00:41:49] Got a question for you.

[00:41:50] Okay.

[00:41:51] We got really interrupted.

[00:41:53] While we were laughing about.

[00:41:54] Your ex walking down the aisle.

[00:41:58] That would never happen.

[00:42:00] I would literally.

[00:42:01] Have to demand.

[00:42:02] A psychology assessment.

[00:42:05] Literally.

[00:42:06] I would need a psychiatrist.

[00:42:09] There's no way.

[00:42:10] Oh boy.

[00:42:12] Anyway.

[00:42:13] No way.

[00:42:15] Yeah.

[00:42:16] And like we said.

[00:42:16] Like Jen and Nathan.

[00:42:17] Are just kind of.

[00:42:18] Over there in the corner.

[00:42:19] Kind of.

[00:42:21] Look away.

[00:42:22] Look away.

[00:42:23] And I'm just like.

[00:42:25] Could have left.

[00:42:27] It could have just left.

[00:42:28] Yeah.

[00:42:29] Like there's no reason for that.

[00:42:30] Mary you can see like.

[00:42:31] Bro.

[00:42:32] Stop your shit.

[00:42:33] Yeah.

[00:42:34] Like I'm done.

[00:42:35] Like.

[00:42:36] You.

[00:42:36] We've been done.

[00:42:37] You didn't want this anymore.

[00:42:39] So I did what I had to do.

[00:42:41] To.

[00:42:41] Get rid of it.

[00:42:43] Exactly.

[00:42:44] Because your show's hall didn't.

[00:42:46] And.

[00:42:47] Yeah.

[00:42:47] So now you want to cry.

[00:42:48] And be like.

[00:42:49] We had something special.

[00:42:51] Bitch.

[00:42:51] No we did not.

[00:42:53] According to you.

[00:42:54] This entire time.

[00:42:55] You said that we didn't.

[00:42:56] But now.

[00:42:57] You want to say.

[00:42:58] We did.

[00:42:59] We don't have anything special.

[00:43:01] Behind my back.

[00:43:03] You say.

[00:43:03] We don't have anything special.

[00:43:05] To my face though.

[00:43:06] You will.

[00:43:08] Okay.

[00:43:10] Great.

[00:43:11] Sounds about right.

[00:43:13] Sounds about.

[00:43:13] Sounds about excellent.

[00:43:15] And.

[00:43:16] We get like kind of the.

[00:43:17] Still to come.

[00:43:18] So we're like halfway through.

[00:43:19] I think.

[00:43:20] The.

[00:43:21] The episodes here.

[00:43:24] We're still going to have more of this next week.

[00:43:27] More of this.

[00:43:29] Let's cry about it.

[00:43:31] From Cody.

[00:43:31] Maybe.

[00:43:33] There's no more.

[00:43:34] There's nothing else to say.

[00:43:35] Just.

[00:43:36] Thank you.

[00:43:38] Um.

[00:43:39] I accept my severance package.

[00:43:41] You have fulfilled it.

[00:43:43] And.

[00:43:44] Let's move on.

[00:43:45] Still to come looks good though.

[00:43:47] Oh yeah.

[00:43:48] Like they're like.

[00:43:49] They're.

[00:43:50] They're backgrounds.

[00:43:51] Everything.

[00:43:51] Like you can see that everyone moved on.

[00:43:53] Everyone's in a new place.

[00:43:54] Yeah.

[00:43:55] It looks really nice.

[00:43:56] It looks like Mary lost weight though.

[00:43:58] I don't know if I noticed.

[00:44:00] But.

[00:44:01] Yeah.

[00:44:01] Maybe.

[00:44:02] I didn't really notice.

[00:44:03] I was like.

[00:44:04] Either she lost weight.

[00:44:05] Or she looks like a whole burden.

[00:44:07] Has been lifted off her shoulders.

[00:44:09] Yeah.

[00:44:09] You know what.

[00:44:10] She did lose weight.

[00:44:11] She lost all of Cody.

[00:44:13] Yeah.

[00:44:15] And that's a ton.

[00:44:17] Yeah.

[00:44:19] That is definitely a ton of weight to lose.

[00:44:22] Yep.

[00:44:24] Yep.

[00:44:26] But.

[00:44:27] I think that's it.

[00:44:29] Anything else you want to talk about sister wives?

[00:44:31] Are we good?

[00:44:33] We're good there.

[00:44:34] Okay.

[00:44:35] Anything else we want to talk about for we.

[00:44:38] Let's talk about B90.

[00:44:40] Let's.

[00:44:41] I honestly cannot remember what happened last week.

[00:44:43] But yes.

[00:44:43] Let's do it.

[00:44:46] So.

[00:44:47] I want to start off with Corona.

[00:44:50] Oh, toe.

[00:44:52] Yeah.

[00:44:52] The other way.

[00:44:53] Oh, lovely Corona.

[00:44:54] Corona.

[00:45:02] So.

[00:45:03] Um.

[00:45:07] I.

[00:45:08] I.

[00:45:08] I.

[00:45:08] There's something going on there.

[00:45:10] Because.

[00:45:13] I don't get it.

[00:45:18] And the reason why I say I don't get it.

[00:45:21] Is because how did.

[00:45:22] How did Inky.

[00:45:25] Come to the U.S.

[00:45:28] Sit on a bench.

[00:45:30] And all of a sudden he walks away.

[00:45:32] And you never see him again.

[00:45:37] What.

[00:45:38] There.

[00:45:38] There's something missing.

[00:45:40] Like.

[00:45:41] Their whole storyline is missing.

[00:45:43] Because it's just.

[00:45:45] First of all.

[00:45:45] A.

[00:45:45] This was all fake.

[00:45:47] Or.

[00:45:49] Whatever.

[00:45:50] They weren't together.

[00:45:51] When they were.

[00:45:52] Filming this.

[00:45:53] So it's like.

[00:45:54] No.

[00:45:55] None of it makes sense.

[00:45:56] Because it's not even real.

[00:45:59] So.

[00:45:59] Like.

[00:46:00] Like.

[00:46:00] And we have Shekinah and Harper.

[00:46:04] Sure.

[00:46:05] It's Harper.

[00:46:06] Sarp.

[00:46:07] Whatever.

[00:46:09] Harper.

[00:46:09] Harper.

[00:46:10] Harper.

[00:46:10] Harper.

[00:46:11] Harper.

[00:46:11] I didn't christen it.

[00:46:15] Okay.

[00:46:16] The two of them are eating butter.

[00:46:18] Oh.

[00:46:19] My God.

[00:46:21] First of all.

[00:46:23] Ew.

[00:46:24] We're on a high fat diet.

[00:46:27] There must be another way.

[00:46:29] There has to be another.

[00:46:31] The carnivore diet.

[00:46:32] There must be another way.

[00:46:35] That's disgusting.

[00:46:37] It's gross.

[00:46:39] Sitting there and eating friggin blocks of butter.

[00:46:41] You know what?

[00:46:42] Mike's mom would be so proud.

[00:46:44] It's brain food y'all.

[00:46:45] It's brain food.

[00:46:46] She'd be so happy.

[00:46:48] Trish.

[00:46:49] Trish.

[00:46:50] So happy.

[00:46:53] Natalie would have an aneurysm.

[00:46:56] Shit.

[00:47:00] I can't.

[00:47:03] Oh my God.

[00:47:04] I'm sorry.

[00:47:05] But Didi.

[00:47:09] Didi.

[00:47:10] Didi.

[00:47:10] Who's Didi?

[00:47:11] Oh Didi.

[00:47:13] Yeah.

[00:47:13] Good old.

[00:47:14] Good old Didi.

[00:47:15] Like I think we're friends.

[00:47:17] Like we're.

[00:47:18] Yes.

[00:47:18] You fucked him once.

[00:47:21] And you guys are.

[00:47:21] Once.

[00:47:22] And you guys are friends.

[00:47:23] I mean I do have to agree with Shekinah on that.

[00:47:26] Like how do you know him so well but you like.

[00:47:30] Wow.

[00:47:30] Well they do talk a lot.

[00:47:31] They did.

[00:47:32] She brought out the receipts.

[00:47:34] They talked a lot.

[00:47:35] They talked a lot.

[00:47:36] Definitely.

[00:47:37] Oh like I would have hung out with them.

[00:47:41] I'm not going to hang out with a girl who my man's had sex with.

[00:47:46] Absolutely.

[00:47:47] He ain't your friend.

[00:47:48] I'm always Shekinah on that one.

[00:47:50] On that.

[00:47:50] Like why?

[00:47:51] Why would I do that?

[00:47:53] But her jealousy is way.

[00:47:55] She needs to check it.

[00:47:57] She needs to relax because like her jealousy is way out of control.

[00:48:00] If you are like that because you have clearly I'm sorry she has an issue with the body count

[00:48:06] which I understand but you still chose to be with this person.

[00:48:09] So you're going to have to deal with his past because my god he has a past.

[00:48:15] Exactly.

[00:48:15] Everyone has a fucking past so get over it.

[00:48:17] Everyone has a past but his is extensive but you're going to have to deal with it because

[00:48:21] you chose to be with him and being like.

[00:48:25] And he's a fool.

[00:48:27] Sarp is a fool because you want to sit there and talk about oh I'm Shekinah's only one.

[00:48:31] Negro.

[00:48:34] How is that impossible?

[00:48:35] She has a daughter.

[00:48:36] Oh.

[00:48:36] She has a daughter before you so you can't sit there and talk about oh I'm her only

[00:48:40] one.

[00:48:41] No you're not.

[00:48:42] Shut up.

[00:48:43] I would have nipped that shit in the butt.

[00:48:45] One time.

[00:48:46] Immediately.

[00:48:47] Because I would have been like no no I don't get to be exposed to your 2500 the bottles the

[00:48:55] book the whole thing while you want to live in la la land that I only had sex with you

[00:49:01] and you alone.

[00:49:02] Thank you.

[00:49:02] We're not doing that.

[00:49:03] But no.

[00:49:04] You need to get over your fucking self.

[00:49:06] If you can't handle my body count being nowhere near your body count then we're not

[00:49:12] it.

[00:49:13] Like what are we doing?

[00:49:15] Absolutely not.

[00:49:16] And then we'll quickly touch on Tata here and the sister.

[00:49:21] I don't know why I cry so much because like I'm dealing with it.

[00:49:26] It's the sister for me.

[00:49:29] Oh my god.

[00:49:29] She's a fucking bitch.

[00:49:31] Well I don't need to know about him.

[00:49:32] I don't need to know anything about him.

[00:49:34] But you want him to do a visa for you to come there?

[00:49:37] Well Tata want her to do the visa for her to come there.

[00:49:40] But that is wrong.

[00:49:41] I said straight up to my mom.

[00:49:44] Well actually that wasn't about that.

[00:49:45] I think I said this separately.

[00:49:48] That's actually regarding Joanne, Donna and Chikana.

[00:49:51] I'll get to that after.

[00:49:51] But there's nowhere ever will anyone disrespect my husband like that.

[00:50:02] But you can fucking flat out forget it.

[00:50:05] Thank you.

[00:50:05] I don't need you to like him.

[00:50:07] I don't need you to do.

[00:50:08] You need to fucking respect him.

[00:50:10] Yeah.

[00:50:11] Don't you ever think you can talk about him that.

[00:50:13] Nor do you.

[00:50:13] Will you ever think you can get me to be on your side or do it.

[00:50:20] I don't care if you're blood or not.

[00:50:23] Sit the fuck out of my life until you can get your shit together.

[00:50:27] Because he's forever.

[00:50:29] Maybe you're not.

[00:50:31] You're not going to fuck with my marriage.

[00:50:33] Thank you.

[00:50:34] So the fact that she's allowing her to fuck with their marriage says a lot.

[00:50:40] Yep.

[00:50:41] Like five note.

[00:50:44] Like I remember when my partner was here.

[00:50:48] And my daughter was going through a little attitude phase.

[00:50:53] And.

[00:50:55] I overheard.

[00:50:57] My partner say to my child.

[00:51:01] Like you don't need to give me a dirty look.

[00:51:05] And from that point on I already knew that my child had an attitude.

[00:51:08] Is she because her her lovely cycle was coming on.

[00:51:13] And when she gets into that mood.

[00:51:15] I just know that her cycle is coming.

[00:51:17] But you need to at her age.

[00:51:19] She needs to learn how to control her.

[00:51:21] Her attitude.

[00:51:22] When it comes to that.

[00:51:23] Because.

[00:51:24] No one's bothering you.

[00:51:26] All my partner said to you was.

[00:51:28] Ask your mother first.

[00:51:29] Before you.

[00:51:30] Before you take it.

[00:51:32] Came and she asked me.

[00:51:34] And I said.

[00:51:35] Fine.

[00:51:35] You can have it.

[00:51:37] But.

[00:51:38] But that doesn't mean that you go back to my partner.

[00:51:41] And screw up your face.

[00:51:43] And give him a attitude.

[00:51:44] Yeah.

[00:51:45] Yeah.

[00:51:45] That I get.

[00:51:46] Right.

[00:51:47] Yeah.

[00:51:47] That's how it was.

[00:51:48] She screwed up her face.

[00:51:50] Gave him the whole.

[00:51:52] Like I can have it.

[00:51:53] Like I told you so.

[00:51:55] But it's just like.

[00:51:56] So I struggled to get out the bed.

[00:51:59] We all know my position right now.

[00:52:01] I'm literally nine months pregnant people.

[00:52:03] So I had to do a tips and a roll.

[00:52:06] And a roll over.

[00:52:08] To get out the bed.

[00:52:10] And.

[00:52:11] And.

[00:52:11] I had to give my.

[00:52:13] My daughter.

[00:52:14] A piece of my mind.

[00:52:16] Because I'm just like.

[00:52:16] You are not going to disrespect him.

[00:52:18] You are not going to be rude to him.

[00:52:22] You act like he knows what happens in this household.

[00:52:25] Every single day.

[00:52:28] Because you already know how.

[00:52:29] You already know how that is.

[00:52:30] I don't need to go into detail.

[00:52:31] Yeah.

[00:52:32] But it's just like.

[00:52:33] Just because.

[00:52:35] He is not here every single day.

[00:52:37] That doesn't mean that it get.

[00:52:39] That you have the right.

[00:52:40] To disrespect him.

[00:52:41] And that type of manner.

[00:52:43] All he said to you was.

[00:52:45] Ask your mother.

[00:52:46] Because.

[00:52:46] Obviously he doesn't know.

[00:52:49] But for you to come out.

[00:52:50] And give him a piece of attitude.

[00:52:52] Like you think you're a boss.

[00:52:54] No.

[00:52:54] I had to.

[00:52:54] I had to tell my child.

[00:52:56] What it was.

[00:52:57] Where to go.

[00:52:58] And get your ass to bed.

[00:53:01] You're no longer having that snack.

[00:53:03] That you wanted.

[00:53:04] You're going to put it back in the cupboard.

[00:53:06] And you're going to.

[00:53:07] Go take a shower.

[00:53:08] And you're going to go take your ass to bed.

[00:53:10] If you had respect.

[00:53:11] You wouldn't have done that.

[00:53:12] You would have gotten your little snack.

[00:53:14] You would have chilled for the rest of the night.

[00:53:15] And it would have been fine.

[00:53:16] But no.

[00:53:16] You want to have an attitude.

[00:53:17] We're going to zip that in the butt real quick.

[00:53:21] Like.

[00:53:22] I'm not dealing with that shit.

[00:53:24] So.

[00:53:26] Going back to Tata.

[00:53:28] And.

[00:53:28] And.

[00:53:29] What's his name?

[00:53:30] James.

[00:53:31] Right.

[00:53:32] Him.

[00:53:33] I'm sorry.

[00:53:34] But I would never allow.

[00:53:36] My sibling.

[00:53:38] To disrespect.

[00:53:39] My partner.

[00:53:40] Or my husband.

[00:53:42] See.

[00:53:42] The only thing that I will say.

[00:53:43] Is a little different.

[00:53:44] Because this is a sister.

[00:53:46] She doesn't have to see her all the time.

[00:53:49] Right.

[00:53:50] Different.

[00:53:51] Everyone can sit there.

[00:53:52] And see that the sister has some type of jealousy.

[00:53:54] Right.

[00:53:55] I'll get to my thoughts on that in a second too.

[00:53:58] But I think what's a little different.

[00:53:59] Is because she is your child.

[00:54:01] Right.

[00:54:01] And.

[00:54:02] Sometimes.

[00:54:03] I think we also have to still give a little grace.

[00:54:06] Where it's like.

[00:54:06] Yeah.

[00:54:06] She's a child.

[00:54:08] Right.

[00:54:08] But we all have our hormones.

[00:54:10] When the period is on the way.

[00:54:12] And.

[00:54:13] We still need to.

[00:54:15] Like.

[00:54:15] Obviously say.

[00:54:16] That's not necessary.

[00:54:18] Right.

[00:54:18] Obviously.

[00:54:19] But also know that.

[00:54:20] A child needs to stay in a child's place.

[00:54:23] Yes.

[00:54:23] But I think like.

[00:54:25] Still.

[00:54:26] She is going.

[00:54:27] You got to think of it from this perspective.

[00:54:29] Sometimes a look.

[00:54:30] And two can just come out your face.

[00:54:32] I know.

[00:54:33] I know she's been dealing with.

[00:54:34] Some other things.

[00:54:35] Besides all that anyways.

[00:54:36] But it's just like.

[00:54:37] Sometimes.

[00:54:39] One two look can come off of her face.

[00:54:41] At any age.

[00:54:43] Oh yeah.

[00:54:44] Right.

[00:54:44] So it's just because she's a child.

[00:54:46] Yes.

[00:54:46] She's a child.

[00:54:46] But she's also.

[00:54:47] Going through the same thing.

[00:54:49] Me and you go through.

[00:54:50] Well.

[00:54:50] Not so much you at the moment.

[00:54:51] But we go through every month.

[00:54:54] When we get our period.

[00:54:56] There's also that part of it.

[00:54:57] So it's a little different.

[00:54:59] Than what.

[00:55:00] Angel is doing.

[00:55:02] Mm hmm.

[00:55:03] Because I feel.

[00:55:04] I don't feel like.

[00:55:06] Obviously.

[00:55:07] It's an actively sabotaging your relationship.

[00:55:10] Right.

[00:55:11] Angel is.

[00:55:12] Absolutely.

[00:55:13] 100% trying to sabotage this relationship.

[00:55:16] Absolutely.

[00:55:17] Absolutely.

[00:55:17] And.

[00:55:19] That's the thing.

[00:55:20] When someone.

[00:55:20] I can't remember who was.

[00:55:21] It said it.

[00:55:22] But someone says.

[00:55:23] I think Angel is struggling.

[00:55:25] With being the big sister.

[00:55:27] Probably the only sister.

[00:55:29] Who's not married.

[00:55:31] And.

[00:55:32] Tasha got married.

[00:55:34] Before she did.

[00:55:35] I think.

[00:55:36] That is a thousand percent.

[00:55:37] What is happening here.

[00:55:39] And.

[00:55:40] So what?

[00:55:41] She wants to be like.

[00:55:42] Oh.

[00:55:42] They met on the internet.

[00:55:44] So.

[00:55:45] So what?

[00:55:45] Is that how most of us meet these days?

[00:55:47] It's online.

[00:55:49] That's the times we're in.

[00:55:52] Like.

[00:55:52] What are you talking about?

[00:55:54] Thank you.

[00:55:55] So.

[00:55:56] Tata needs to get a little bit of a backbone here.

[00:55:59] And put some boundaries in place.

[00:56:01] Yes.

[00:56:01] I understand you want to have a family member there with you.

[00:56:03] You want to feel comfortable speaking in your language.

[00:56:06] And I hear all that.

[00:56:08] But there has to be boundaries that are being set.

[00:56:12] That.

[00:56:13] That angel needs to respect.

[00:56:14] Exactly.

[00:56:15] If you're not doing that.

[00:56:17] Then.

[00:56:18] I'm sorry.

[00:56:18] She can't come.

[00:56:19] No.

[00:56:20] Not at all.

[00:56:21] And the fact that you literally.

[00:56:22] All.

[00:56:23] The.

[00:56:23] Give your husband an ultimatum.

[00:56:26] Of.

[00:56:27] I'm not coming.

[00:56:28] Until you start the process.

[00:56:30] You would have stayed right there.

[00:56:32] That's what I'm saying.

[00:56:34] Okay.

[00:56:35] Cool.

[00:56:35] Stay there.

[00:56:36] Yep.

[00:56:37] Like that's childish to me.

[00:56:41] Yep.

[00:56:42] You would have stayed right there.

[00:56:44] No.

[00:56:45] Business being.

[00:56:48] Like in a.

[00:56:50] Marriage.

[00:56:52] Mm-hmm.

[00:56:53] With anyone.

[00:56:56] Who are you?

[00:56:57] Would have stayed right there.

[00:56:59] Right.

[00:57:01] Because there's no.

[00:57:02] There's no way.

[00:57:03] There's no way.

[00:57:04] Absolutely not.

[00:57:05] I agree with that sexy Ireland guy.

[00:57:10] I agree with him because.

[00:57:12] I would have said cut that shit out right now.

[00:57:14] Right.

[00:57:15] Well they all said it.

[00:57:17] They all said it.

[00:57:18] Sure.

[00:57:18] Yeah.

[00:57:19] Every single person on that stage said you need to cut that off.

[00:57:21] Yeah.

[00:57:22] Until she learns to respect your marriage.

[00:57:24] Absolutely.

[00:57:24] Because we're not doing this.

[00:57:27] Not doing it.

[00:57:30] Absolutely not.

[00:57:33] Ridiculous.

[00:57:34] The other thing that happened that I kind of want to talk about that because I'm on the

[00:57:37] same wavelength but a little different.

[00:57:46] Is Shekinah coming for Donna, Joanne's mom, in a way that I just don't agree with.

[00:57:57] Like I can understand you feel triggered because your mom or she reminds you of her of your

[00:58:03] mom and all that but for you to come for her in a way you did questioning like the relationship

[00:58:11] between Joanne and Donna and then want to get all pissed and mad because Donna came for

[00:58:17] you.

[00:58:18] Yep.

[00:58:20] Well you came for her first like Corona said.

[00:58:23] So of course she's not going to sit there and take that shit.

[00:58:26] Of course because I think she said but we all think you dipped out of the states for dick

[00:58:34] and left your daughter behind in boarding school.

[00:58:37] Thank you.

[00:58:38] Like people are going to question that.

[00:58:40] Of course.

[00:58:40] Um and to me Joanne just sitting there letting her do that pissed me all the way off.

[00:58:54] Joanne is a horrible person in my honest opinion.

[00:58:58] She doesn't know.

[00:59:00] She truly is like you want to get married a lope and whatever fine go do it.

[00:59:06] But you don't tell your sons anything.

[00:59:09] You expect them to be okay with you potentially moving to Ireland for this sexy ass man but

[00:59:16] that's the point.

[00:59:17] Okay.

[00:59:18] And then you sit here and let another person disrespect your mom in that way.

[00:59:28] And you sit there and say dick all.

[00:59:33] What the fuck?

[00:59:35] That will never fly.

[00:59:37] Trust me.

[00:59:38] I have had seen people try to come for my mom like oh you have shit to say.

[00:59:45] And I come for them harder.

[00:59:49] You're not going to talk to my mom in that way.

[00:59:51] Who the fuck you think you are.

[00:59:53] It's happened one of many times and you know me.

[00:59:56] I'm not confrontational.

[00:59:58] Right.

[00:59:59] But someone comes for my mom.

[01:00:01] Oh you better watch the fuck out.

[01:00:04] So seeing her sit there and say nothing pissed me off.

[01:00:10] Open up your mouth because you have so much to say.

[01:00:15] Open up your mouth and say please do not talk to my mom in that way.

[01:00:20] Yep.

[01:00:22] While Joanne I mean don't I mean Donna doesn't need anyone to defend her.

[01:00:26] She's good.

[01:00:27] But it's still just the act of you just sitting there not even saying a thing.

[01:00:34] That part.

[01:00:35] No.

[01:00:37] I would love nothing more.

[01:00:39] If you're not saying anything like.

[01:00:41] I would love nothing more than to see Sean again on my television screen.

[01:00:45] Trust.

[01:00:47] But I never want to see her again.

[01:00:49] No.

[01:00:49] I don't know what to do with that.

[01:00:52] I'll just follow him on Instagram.

[01:00:54] That's shit.

[01:00:56] So.

[01:00:58] But.

[01:01:00] Is there anything else?

[01:01:02] Did we miss anything?

[01:01:03] Oh well.

[01:01:04] We did talk a little bit about Lily and Josh right?

[01:01:07] Yeah.

[01:01:08] But they're just different people.

[01:01:10] And I just don't care about that relationship.

[01:01:13] But Sarper again is correct.

[01:01:16] Fuck your wife.

[01:01:18] There's nothing that makes me more pissed off when I'm not having sex.

[01:01:23] I am not a nice person.

[01:01:28] So.

[01:01:30] I would also rate that shit lower than a three.

[01:01:33] Three was generous.

[01:01:35] Honestly.

[01:01:35] It's a one for me.

[01:01:37] You're not having sex with me.

[01:01:39] What's the point?

[01:01:42] Let's all.

[01:01:44] I feel that.

[01:01:46] Because I've had my air.

[01:01:47] I've had my irritations with my partner.

[01:01:50] Yeah.

[01:01:51] But I also have to understand like where my partner is coming from due to my circumstances

[01:01:54] right now being pregnant.

[01:01:55] Yeah.

[01:01:56] Whether you agree or disagree.

[01:01:57] We don't need to go into that.

[01:01:59] Exactly.

[01:02:00] So.

[01:02:00] It is what it is.

[01:02:02] Yeah.

[01:02:03] But again.

[01:02:04] At least there is a reason.

[01:02:08] Yeah.

[01:02:08] What's Josh's reason for not?

[01:02:11] He doesn't have a reason.

[01:02:12] He's just being an asshole.

[01:02:13] Can I just say something?

[01:02:15] Mm-hmm.

[01:02:16] Mm-hmm.

[01:02:16] Someone.

[01:02:17] I don't know who.

[01:02:18] I think it was Lily said that they had only had sex in the entire time that they've known

[01:02:21] each other four or five times.

[01:02:24] Girl.

[01:02:25] I did that amount of times the first time I had sex with my ex.

[01:02:30] That was all in one day.

[01:02:33] Oh, wow.

[01:02:33] Five times.

[01:02:36] Five times.

[01:02:38] Hell, with my current, we did that in like a week or two.

[01:02:43] Five times?

[01:02:45] Well.

[01:02:47] I can't compute that.

[01:02:49] I don't understand what is happening.

[01:02:52] And the fact that you're back in the States, she's over there in China.

[01:02:56] Like, bro, how are you guys working this out?

[01:02:58] And then, like, I don't think he's there permanently.

[01:03:02] I swear he had sex with her when he went to go visit her.

[01:03:05] No, he didn't.

[01:03:06] Remember, she said that they had not had sex since he had landed in China.

[01:03:13] So then they didn't, when they went for that massage and everything like that, they

[01:03:16] didn't do anything?

[01:03:17] They didn't have sex.

[01:03:19] Oh, my God.

[01:03:20] Nothing had happened.

[01:03:22] Nothing had happened.

[01:03:23] She was begging him to have sex with her.

[01:03:26] Nothing had happened.

[01:03:27] So you're there for quite some time and you don't want to have sex?

[01:03:31] Like, I don't understand.

[01:03:32] I'm begging.

[01:03:33] Like, you have a woman every day right in front of you.

[01:03:36] And she looked absolutely gorgeous.

[01:03:38] She looked incredible on her wedding day.

[01:03:41] You mean to tell me that you didn't want to take her in the back and just have sex with

[01:03:44] her right then and there?

[01:03:46] Because there is sometimes where I see Sean.

[01:03:51] And I'm just like, that's what I am saying.

[01:03:57] You know what I mean?

[01:03:58] I have never been in a situation where I'm like, I just see you when I don't want to have

[01:04:06] sex.

[01:04:06] Are you kidding?

[01:04:08] Right now.

[01:04:09] Like, you haven't really seen me and, like, my current in that situation, but you saw me

[01:04:15] and my ex in that situation.

[01:04:16] We couldn't keep ourselves off of each other.

[01:04:19] So I don't, that's why I can't understand how you're there in front of her and you were

[01:04:26] long distance and you don't want to just jump on that.

[01:04:30] My girl gave you a house with an elevator with elevator music and you're not over here having

[01:04:35] sex with her.

[01:04:38] I can't.

[01:04:39] I'm just, that wouldn't be me.

[01:04:43] What's the elevator music for me?

[01:04:45] It wouldn't be me.

[01:04:46] I would not be in that situation.

[01:04:48] I'd be like, either you're doing it or someone else is.

[01:04:51] Like, I don't know what to tell you.

[01:04:54] Like, this is, this is ridiculous.

[01:04:57] Yeah.

[01:04:58] There's just no way.

[01:05:02] I don't think he's into her.

[01:05:03] I don't think he, I don't think he's into her.

[01:05:05] Neither do I.

[01:05:06] Cause I just, and he's over here being like Gino 2.0 that he needs to have.

[01:05:11] I don't want to have angry sex.

[01:05:15] Shut up.

[01:05:16] Sex is an incredible thing that we all need to explore.

[01:05:20] What's the problem?

[01:05:22] Like, it just, no, I can't, I can't, I can't take, I understand that you know,

[01:05:27] need to have that connection and everything.

[01:05:29] I totally get it.

[01:05:30] But I will never understand people who are just like, I don't do angry sex.

[01:05:38] Yep.

[01:05:39] Anyway.

[01:05:40] Like, are you serious?

[01:05:41] Like, that, that's the best type of sex there is.

[01:05:44] Yeah, it is.

[01:05:46] Right, but I think we lost.

[01:05:50] Anyway, I think that's it for me.

[01:05:55] Yes.

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